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What DD/lg is not...
• gender, age, or race specific.
• just calling your boyfriend or husband "daddy" in bed.
-This would be considered topping and bottoming.
-There is nothing wrong with that but since it's bedroom play rather than a lifestyle, it differs from a D/s dynamic.
• the same as sugar daddies and sugar babies.
• a reason for a submissive to act like a brat and manipulate their Dom/Domme.
• a way to get spoiled and give nothing in return.
This is a group made for those in a DD/lg relationship and want an icon to represent that on their page.
The Symbolism of the flag.
The central element of the flag is a little bear within a heart, within a circle. The heart symbolizes the gentle and nurturing nature of a Daddy Dom. Within His heart and the safety of His embrace, always cherished, always protected, He holds His little, represented by the teddy bear/stuffie.
Surrounding T/them is an all-encompassing circle of trust, the foundation on which to build. While the Black and blue stripes represent Dominance and submission respectively, as D/s is the core of the DD/lg dynamic.
What is the DD/lg dynamic?
In the world of D/s relationships, Doms and subs have different titles, sometimes depending on the dynamic or based on comfort between the couples. While most people are familiar with Master/slave or Master/pet, there is a "gentler" and more lenient dynamic and that is DD/lg. DD/lg stands for Daddy Dom and little girl, but it also known as Daddy Dom and babygirl. Do not be fooled by the name though, it is not gender specific, there are Mommies and little boys as well. It still involves a Dominant (male or female) and a submissive (male or female). Some other names for the dynamic include CG/l (Caregiver/little) and Big/little.
What is a Daddy Dom or Mommy Domme?
A Daddy, Mommy, or any other Big is a type of Dominant partner. The Big can be of any gender and age group. It's a common misconception that a Big has to be a lot older than the little but this is completely false. While experience does come with age, age alone is not what makes a person Dominant. Some Daddies are strict, while others are more relaxed. It all depends on the person, connection, and the power exchange. Daddies focus more on guidance and nurturing their little, helping them grow as a person and explore theirselves. This isn’t to say that other Doms don’t do the same but their reasons behind it may be different.
What is a little?
The term little refers to a submissive that is more of a child-at-heart and plays on their child-like nature. In some communities you'll see that the term's original definition is used a little bit differently and losely, since you can find littles who are more interested in little space but without D/s. For the sake of talking about the dynamic and lifestyle, I'll be using the term with D/s in mind. In general littles may require more care, attention, protection, and guidance than other submissives. Their Dominant partner acts as more of a parental or caregiver figure than other types of Dominants and are typically called names along the lines of Mommy and Daddy, but you’ll find dynamics where the Big partner is another “family” member (sister and brother or even Uncle or Aunt, for example). They feed off each other; the Big giving the support, care, and guidance, while receiving devotion, love, obedience, and playfulness that they may desire.
Please note that the DD/lg dynamic has nothing to do with pedophilia. We do not condone the acts of pedophilia and the exploitation of children in any way.
Just as adults like to take on other roles in the bedroom such as nurse, pet, porn star, etc. it is all roleplay; that is the same for ageplay. No matter how taboo the roleplay or fantasy, it's harmless as long as no one is being abused. No one is sexualizing children and the dynamic is not pedophilia. Pedophiles would not be interested in adult women anyways, no matter how young they dress or look, because they're attracted to the idea of prepubescent children either for the sake of the easy manipulation and sex or the body. The DD/lg dynamic is like any other aspect of BDSM - it is safe, sane, and consensual between adults. Those who participate in the dynamic should be not be shamed for doing so and should not be accused of having "daddy issues".
What DD/lg is not...
• gender, age, or race specific.
• just calling your boyfriend or husband "daddy" in bed.
-This would be considered topping and bottoming.
-There is nothing wrong with that but since it's bedroom play rather than a lifestyle, it differs from a D/s dynamic.
• the same as sugar daddies and sugar babies.
• a reason for a submissive to act like a brat and manipulate their Dom/Domme.
• a way to get spoiled and give nothing in return.
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