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Diamond Anniversary
General | Posted 9 years agoShine bright like a Diamond....or a....nevermind.
So, this year is 10 years together. Boz and I have elapsed the Diamond Anniversary! Woot.
I don't have anything elaborate at this time, but what a difference a year makes. A year ago we were in a very different place than we are now. Literally and figuratively. But what does that mean? Who knows.
We've survived so much...change. Hopefully this year and those to come will be less change and more MOAR.
Well thats it for the time being.
I love you my sweet tiger! Thank you for the most wonderful years of my life and the continued love that only you can give!
S
So, this year is 10 years together. Boz and I have elapsed the Diamond Anniversary! Woot.
I don't have anything elaborate at this time, but what a difference a year makes. A year ago we were in a very different place than we are now. Literally and figuratively. But what does that mean? Who knows.
We've survived so much...change. Hopefully this year and those to come will be less change and more MOAR.
Well thats it for the time being.
I love you my sweet tiger! Thank you for the most wonderful years of my life and the continued love that only you can give!
S
Nine Years
General | Posted 10 years agoIf you look for the significance of the number 9 you'll find just about any description to meet your needs. If you need it to be "one more than 8" or "one less than 10" you'll find that obviously. To each his own.
To me 9 is the number of Universal love, eternity, faith...it was the first notation I came across and I need not look farther.
From the moment that I met Boz, I know he was something special...and that together we would have something special. I did the illogical, I dropped everything...thinking on my feet I worked out a plan with my life that would allow me to be with my new found love of my life. We were destined to be together for so many reasons...and destiny always temps, tries and affirms itself in your presence. It all went smoothly, to my surprise...cuz things sure aren't going smoothly now...but I'll elaborate on that further a little down the line.
In 2007 I was unemployed traditionally, but was working as a contractor for a guy who was dicking around with my pay. He we'll call the underpants man. I had traveled to Maui, Colorado and Nevada all working for this guy...doing contract security work. I had just returned from a month in Las Vegas where I was implementing a security camera system for a well known mortgage firm. This work was different from our typical work as the customer was a 30-90 day payer...but I had on good authority the check was written, customer was happy...so where was my contracted pay? Well it was held up by the "underpants man". Side note: Underpants, it has to be to me the funniest word when describing underwear, jockeys, ftl, tighty whities...panties...although panties is funny too...but underpants just gets a chuckle out of me every time. Panties are just icky. But Underpants man was called this because while on Maui for work, my contractual employer was there briefly...btw, you think 30 days in Vegas is great...it is...but 30 days on Maui...yeah...way better. But I digress. Underpants man was sans clean underpants. He had arrived in from NJ and didn't have the time apparently to wash his knickers, so he needed to buy some. Ordinarily I would treat this as TMI...but he was sincere...he needed underpants. So I took him to KMart on Maui where I bought a shirt...whilst he purchased underpants. $40 dollars worth of underpants mind you. Apparently they were not 'half off' as the joke goes...and he didn't just need a three pack, he needed a few three packs...or something. I don't know...didn't watch him buy or confirm that they were indeed quality underpants...but I found it funny that he would spend so much, go overboard for something that should have been under 10 dollars to get him by. It's not like he was going to be there the same 30 days I was...in fact he was gone two days later. But later that night we went to a restaurant for dinner after the site closed down for the day and he paid. It was Ruth's Cris....or what ever you call it. Nice expensive steak house...we ate well that night, then drinks later. All this on expenses which was nice. Long story short, underpants man was unable to pay my 30 day expenses and my fees for about 42 days afterward. Yet I recall him splurging on underpants and delectable dead cow. I'm thinking his priorities were just a tad off. SO how does this story relate...well the underpants man had pulled this same shit on me in December of 2006...he squeaked out an installment but I was tapped out...about to be unable to pay car, rent, utilities...the works...and then he calls me up to do another camera job in Malibu...but I never got to start that before I had dropped everything and move to New York to start my life with Boz.
I had met Boz online on the 10th of January, not through FA for those of you who wonder...but elsewhere. He directed me to FA and I promptly signed up...but I wasn't here before then. I didn't know there was a community of furs, but strangely I had been looking for furry art and seeing the fur suit photos for a few months prior. My tattoos were all of Simba (3) and I got most of the inspiration for them from looking for Lion King related images. Boz and I chatted the night of the 10th and I felt an immediate connection to him and was surprised to learn that he was living in my home state of New York and lived in a town I had familiarity with and we had frequented the same towns and what not. I was connecting with him and we had more in common than we knew at the time simply from that. I'm not going to go into mushy details, about how I was attracted to his hairy legs in a photo that he sent me, or divulge the expansive emails between us for the first 8 days we were communicating...but I was sure...this guy is the one.
I had some income coming from a friend and my mother had sent me a care package...and the neighbor had a gift certificate for me and I was able to pull off a plane ticket and a place to stay in NY and we had planned a visit into February, but something came up and I felt it was important for me to get there ASAP.
The flight to NY was in January, I took an overnighter...which I had never done before. Jet Blue...which again was new to me...from Long Beach to Salt Lake to JFK to Rochester, NY...it was the worst selection of flights...ever. I think I left Long Beach at 5PM Pacific and arrived in Rochester at 9am the next day! January 21st.
I was familiar with the Rochester Airport...not much changes around here and I had been gone since 1999...so 8 years had passed and I was back 'home' again. Boz was waiting for me at the terminal gates and he had a plush Simba in hand...( not like I mistook the granny standing next to him ) but I identified him right away! We sat and talked while waiting for the luggage to arrive. And once acquired we proceeded to the parking lot. When we arrived at his truck and got in side (mind you it was FREEZING cold and snowy at the time...and was the whole time I was there)...Boz then leaned over and we had the most passionate kiss...I think I've ever experienced...(to that date).
I had arranged a hotel for a few days and we went there...if you want to know what happened then...buy the book! ;)
My funds ran out for a place for us to stay and I still had a few days left on my brief stay. So I ended up staying a night or two at my aunt's house...of course Boz wasn't with me those nights but we did still make time to see each other. I had an interview with a company that I had worked with before...I basically walked out of it with a job in professional engineering services. Woot! So then we began to build plans to get our own place and get things in motion. I was slated to start February 12th...and had to go home, get my car...set up a few things to make the move smooth and get back to NY!
Boz's mother was kind enough to put me up for a couple weeks when I got back to New York...we both slept in Boz' tiny...tiny single bed...but we pulled it off! We went out together on February 14th for Valentine's day...it was a snow storm. I had gotten out of work, picked up some flowers and when I got home we did the typical things two horny cats would do! It was incredible!! But...buy the book!
By February 18th...we had our own townhouse apartment! I was surprised at how well things were going, not with our relationship...but with regard to finances...accommodations...getting a job...the works. Our relationship was that of soul mates...meant to be together...come what may...
To shorten the details here...Big Bang Style:
July 2007 I quit my job, got a better job in California, Aug 2007 we moved to Anaheim, CA where we had a pool. My boss paid for the whole move, only to nickle and dime me through the year I worked for him. We had lots of adventures hunting for action figures, MLP, the other MLP and Lego, Oct 2008 I quit my job again and we moved back to NY to the same complex we lived before...May 2009 shit hit the fan but we made it through...and then in July 2009 we moved into a huge two apartment home where we had both apartments...Aug 2011 we moved to Shortsville into an even bigger ranch home...then shit hit the fan...Aug 2012 we rented the garage in back of our house and evicted the pot smoker, mud bog riding, clown cart owning, MFers who pissed in my grass when they thought no one was watching!...shit hit the fan...but we got through it...and up to Jan 2016, where it's just bitch cold...and all along we have electric heaters...(two just died) and fuel oil that takes like an hour to warm up...then can't maintain the temp.
So our lives together started off to be smooth and I have no doubts that regardless...come what may...we'd still be together. I love him, and he loves me...obviously...but it takes more than that to stay together this long. It takes sacrifice. It takes passion. It takes patience. It takes hot sex! It takes bumps and hurdles. It takes faith. It takes respect. And it takes heart. To make it an eternity...a number 9.
Love you my sexy and sweet tiger. Always...for eternity!
To me 9 is the number of Universal love, eternity, faith...it was the first notation I came across and I need not look farther.
From the moment that I met Boz, I know he was something special...and that together we would have something special. I did the illogical, I dropped everything...thinking on my feet I worked out a plan with my life that would allow me to be with my new found love of my life. We were destined to be together for so many reasons...and destiny always temps, tries and affirms itself in your presence. It all went smoothly, to my surprise...cuz things sure aren't going smoothly now...but I'll elaborate on that further a little down the line.
In 2007 I was unemployed traditionally, but was working as a contractor for a guy who was dicking around with my pay. He we'll call the underpants man. I had traveled to Maui, Colorado and Nevada all working for this guy...doing contract security work. I had just returned from a month in Las Vegas where I was implementing a security camera system for a well known mortgage firm. This work was different from our typical work as the customer was a 30-90 day payer...but I had on good authority the check was written, customer was happy...so where was my contracted pay? Well it was held up by the "underpants man". Side note: Underpants, it has to be to me the funniest word when describing underwear, jockeys, ftl, tighty whities...panties...although panties is funny too...but underpants just gets a chuckle out of me every time. Panties are just icky. But Underpants man was called this because while on Maui for work, my contractual employer was there briefly...btw, you think 30 days in Vegas is great...it is...but 30 days on Maui...yeah...way better. But I digress. Underpants man was sans clean underpants. He had arrived in from NJ and didn't have the time apparently to wash his knickers, so he needed to buy some. Ordinarily I would treat this as TMI...but he was sincere...he needed underpants. So I took him to KMart on Maui where I bought a shirt...whilst he purchased underpants. $40 dollars worth of underpants mind you. Apparently they were not 'half off' as the joke goes...and he didn't just need a three pack, he needed a few three packs...or something. I don't know...didn't watch him buy or confirm that they were indeed quality underpants...but I found it funny that he would spend so much, go overboard for something that should have been under 10 dollars to get him by. It's not like he was going to be there the same 30 days I was...in fact he was gone two days later. But later that night we went to a restaurant for dinner after the site closed down for the day and he paid. It was Ruth's Cris....or what ever you call it. Nice expensive steak house...we ate well that night, then drinks later. All this on expenses which was nice. Long story short, underpants man was unable to pay my 30 day expenses and my fees for about 42 days afterward. Yet I recall him splurging on underpants and delectable dead cow. I'm thinking his priorities were just a tad off. SO how does this story relate...well the underpants man had pulled this same shit on me in December of 2006...he squeaked out an installment but I was tapped out...about to be unable to pay car, rent, utilities...the works...and then he calls me up to do another camera job in Malibu...but I never got to start that before I had dropped everything and move to New York to start my life with Boz.
I had met Boz online on the 10th of January, not through FA for those of you who wonder...but elsewhere. He directed me to FA and I promptly signed up...but I wasn't here before then. I didn't know there was a community of furs, but strangely I had been looking for furry art and seeing the fur suit photos for a few months prior. My tattoos were all of Simba (3) and I got most of the inspiration for them from looking for Lion King related images. Boz and I chatted the night of the 10th and I felt an immediate connection to him and was surprised to learn that he was living in my home state of New York and lived in a town I had familiarity with and we had frequented the same towns and what not. I was connecting with him and we had more in common than we knew at the time simply from that. I'm not going to go into mushy details, about how I was attracted to his hairy legs in a photo that he sent me, or divulge the expansive emails between us for the first 8 days we were communicating...but I was sure...this guy is the one.
I had some income coming from a friend and my mother had sent me a care package...and the neighbor had a gift certificate for me and I was able to pull off a plane ticket and a place to stay in NY and we had planned a visit into February, but something came up and I felt it was important for me to get there ASAP.
The flight to NY was in January, I took an overnighter...which I had never done before. Jet Blue...which again was new to me...from Long Beach to Salt Lake to JFK to Rochester, NY...it was the worst selection of flights...ever. I think I left Long Beach at 5PM Pacific and arrived in Rochester at 9am the next day! January 21st.
I was familiar with the Rochester Airport...not much changes around here and I had been gone since 1999...so 8 years had passed and I was back 'home' again. Boz was waiting for me at the terminal gates and he had a plush Simba in hand...( not like I mistook the granny standing next to him ) but I identified him right away! We sat and talked while waiting for the luggage to arrive. And once acquired we proceeded to the parking lot. When we arrived at his truck and got in side (mind you it was FREEZING cold and snowy at the time...and was the whole time I was there)...Boz then leaned over and we had the most passionate kiss...I think I've ever experienced...(to that date).
I had arranged a hotel for a few days and we went there...if you want to know what happened then...buy the book! ;)
My funds ran out for a place for us to stay and I still had a few days left on my brief stay. So I ended up staying a night or two at my aunt's house...of course Boz wasn't with me those nights but we did still make time to see each other. I had an interview with a company that I had worked with before...I basically walked out of it with a job in professional engineering services. Woot! So then we began to build plans to get our own place and get things in motion. I was slated to start February 12th...and had to go home, get my car...set up a few things to make the move smooth and get back to NY!
Boz's mother was kind enough to put me up for a couple weeks when I got back to New York...we both slept in Boz' tiny...tiny single bed...but we pulled it off! We went out together on February 14th for Valentine's day...it was a snow storm. I had gotten out of work, picked up some flowers and when I got home we did the typical things two horny cats would do! It was incredible!! But...buy the book!
By February 18th...we had our own townhouse apartment! I was surprised at how well things were going, not with our relationship...but with regard to finances...accommodations...getting a job...the works. Our relationship was that of soul mates...meant to be together...come what may...
To shorten the details here...Big Bang Style:
July 2007 I quit my job, got a better job in California, Aug 2007 we moved to Anaheim, CA where we had a pool. My boss paid for the whole move, only to nickle and dime me through the year I worked for him. We had lots of adventures hunting for action figures, MLP, the other MLP and Lego, Oct 2008 I quit my job again and we moved back to NY to the same complex we lived before...May 2009 shit hit the fan but we made it through...and then in July 2009 we moved into a huge two apartment home where we had both apartments...Aug 2011 we moved to Shortsville into an even bigger ranch home...then shit hit the fan...Aug 2012 we rented the garage in back of our house and evicted the pot smoker, mud bog riding, clown cart owning, MFers who pissed in my grass when they thought no one was watching!...shit hit the fan...but we got through it...and up to Jan 2016, where it's just bitch cold...and all along we have electric heaters...(two just died) and fuel oil that takes like an hour to warm up...then can't maintain the temp.
So our lives together started off to be smooth and I have no doubts that regardless...come what may...we'd still be together. I love him, and he loves me...obviously...but it takes more than that to stay together this long. It takes sacrifice. It takes passion. It takes patience. It takes hot sex! It takes bumps and hurdles. It takes faith. It takes respect. And it takes heart. To make it an eternity...a number 9.
Love you my sexy and sweet tiger. Always...for eternity!
Anniversary Week! ~ 8 Years!
General | Posted 11 years agoToday marks the start of our Anniversary week! Boz and I have been together 8 years today! Although we didn't meet in person until the 21st, our souls found their mates!
We celebrate both dates...it just makes sense!
Happy Eight Year Anniversary Kitten! I love you!!!
We celebrate both dates...it just makes sense!
Happy Eight Year Anniversary Kitten! I love you!!!
Boz' Birthday!
General | Posted 11 years agoMay the 21st is DaBoz' birthday!!! No catchy slogans referring to flipped Star Wars dates...which really have no basis anyway...really.
It's just a holiday for both of us to take a time out from work and stuffs and just have a good day with the birthday tiger!
Happy Birthday Sexy Tiger...I hope your dreams come true ;)
It's just a holiday for both of us to take a time out from work and stuffs and just have a good day with the birthday tiger!
Happy Birthday Sexy Tiger...I hope your dreams come true ;)
Real Love 7 Years
General | Posted 12 years agoTo My Dear Sweet Tiger:
Do you understand just how much I feel for you, do you
Do you comprehend when I say my love is true, do you
Always - with me - forever, oh baby
I know - we'll be - together
I tell you time after time, you bring me up when I'm down
I'm telling you time after time, I don't wanna lose what I've found
Real love, I still believe in love
Real love, I still believe in love
Do you realise just how much you mean to me
If I close my eyes you're the only one I see
Always - with me - forever, oh baby
I know - we'll be - together
I tell you time after time, you bring me up when I'm down
I'm telling you time after time, I don't wanna lose what I've found
Real love, I still believe in love
Real love, I still believe in love
Time after time, time after time
Real love, I still believe in love
And time after time, time after time
Real love, I still believe in love
I tell you time after time, you bring me up when I'm down
I'm telling you time after time, I don't wanna lose what I've found
Real love, I still believe in love
Real love, I still believe in love
~~~~Real Love: Cher
Thank you Cher for remaining to be relevant and always awesome!
2557 days, 13 hours, 42 minutes and 59 seconds
7 years
220,974,179 seconds
3,682,902 minutes
61,381 hours
365 weeks
Thats how long I've been in love with you...as of this journal. It seems like longer and yet seems like yesterday. You are there for me every moment of every day, in my heart when you're not in my arms. I love you. I never imagined a love like ours could be real, would be real, was and is real...but it truly is...
You alone have given me the strength to survive, persevere and love where I was heartbroken, beaten and down. You alone have made my day brighter and brighter with your grace and spirit where I thought I was in the darkest of worlds. You alone...and no one else.
I've always been amazed at how easily everything came together for us. Your eagerness to be together, a new job, a new home and opportunity seemed to be endless. It's true that the best things come to those who wait. I waited a third of my life to find you....and the best part is I have the rest with you.
Seven years, who could ask for any one better to spend life with than your soul mate.
I love you Boz, with all my heart, soul and everything that I am and will be. I'm yours forever.
Do you understand just how much I feel for you, do you
Do you comprehend when I say my love is true, do you
Always - with me - forever, oh baby
I know - we'll be - together
I tell you time after time, you bring me up when I'm down
I'm telling you time after time, I don't wanna lose what I've found
Real love, I still believe in love
Real love, I still believe in love
Do you realise just how much you mean to me
If I close my eyes you're the only one I see
Always - with me - forever, oh baby
I know - we'll be - together
I tell you time after time, you bring me up when I'm down
I'm telling you time after time, I don't wanna lose what I've found
Real love, I still believe in love
Real love, I still believe in love
Time after time, time after time
Real love, I still believe in love
And time after time, time after time
Real love, I still believe in love
I tell you time after time, you bring me up when I'm down
I'm telling you time after time, I don't wanna lose what I've found
Real love, I still believe in love
Real love, I still believe in love
~~~~Real Love: Cher
Thank you Cher for remaining to be relevant and always awesome!
2557 days, 13 hours, 42 minutes and 59 seconds
7 years
220,974,179 seconds
3,682,902 minutes
61,381 hours
365 weeks
Thats how long I've been in love with you...as of this journal. It seems like longer and yet seems like yesterday. You are there for me every moment of every day, in my heart when you're not in my arms. I love you. I never imagined a love like ours could be real, would be real, was and is real...but it truly is...
You alone have given me the strength to survive, persevere and love where I was heartbroken, beaten and down. You alone have made my day brighter and brighter with your grace and spirit where I thought I was in the darkest of worlds. You alone...and no one else.
I've always been amazed at how easily everything came together for us. Your eagerness to be together, a new job, a new home and opportunity seemed to be endless. It's true that the best things come to those who wait. I waited a third of my life to find you....and the best part is I have the rest with you.
Seven years, who could ask for any one better to spend life with than your soul mate.
I love you Boz, with all my heart, soul and everything that I am and will be. I'm yours forever.
