i dont reach out much....but i need help. i was asked today where i wanted to settle down after the navy..and for the first time in my life...i couldnt respond....the navy has always been the dictator of where i go and what i do and now...after this...its my choice. and after 13 moves (soon to be 14) in 19 years....i have no idea where to go... i dont know how you all can help..i guess i just needed to say it....for the first time in a LONG time....im scared and confused