Ohh, man. I can't say I've ever experienced such rough treatment, but you've got my sympathy nonetheless.

well thank you

I hope i helped a little man *Hugs tight|* I hope you can get through it.

People are selfish, and I'm sorry that you've been put through crap like that. *hug*
and, if it's who I think it is, I'll be linking his mate this journal.

"Has anyone out there ever really helped someone like REALLY helped someone and then gotten shit on in return? "--You

Well, back in my first job, I helped a poor old woman carry a heavy box of crap because it looked like she was about to kill herself by carrying uit... multiples times, then she ended up being my supervisor later, and had me fired. *nods* It's always nice doing things for other people then just getting thrown in the oven. I guess slightly unrelated, but, yeah... People/furs can really suck sometimes. :/

Perhaps he's the kind of person who feels humiliated when he is in need of somebody. And instead of showing you his gratitude, he instead push you off because you're the symbol of his humiliation.

Either way, it's never a good thing when a good person becomes the victim of his own kindness ; have you tried speaking with that person about how you feel?

Oh ya we talked many times, he is like "you don't keep in touch much and bla bla bla"..... well im sorry he doesn't check his email or messages a lot or the fact sometimes his owner will get the messages first and not give them to him. Believe me I keep a record of everything sent to him or calls made that I don't hear back. Plus the fact that his owner controls everything and any time i did go to visit we couldn't get time alone to chat cause he didn't trust me. At morphicon we were walking around the parking lot talking and his owners mate told his owner we had went off to go fuck so his owner called him to come talk to him. My fucking god we were outside walking around the parking lot. So ya I have tried to talk and he know how much he hurts me just he doesn't seem to care sometimes. I have offered multiple times for him to move in with me and get out of the situation he is in there that he is apparently " so miserable living there", but every time his owners lies to him and he stays there.

So he's either manipulated or very submissive. Giving this situation, I don't think you should feel like he has turned his back on you ; the problem seems to come from his owner alone. Does he have any friend beside you? The way you present the situation, it seems like he needs serious help.

Oh those silly ohio furs

I've had it happen to me..all you can do is deal with it and just move on.

that basically describes everyday for me, just different people all the time, or the ones who ask for advice then ignore every word of it Well I feel for you and I hope things get better for you soon

Awww, I wish I was there to make you feel better. You know I can! Shame we are 5 hours apart. You never call me anymore, although in your defense, I am busy all the time, and can rarely talk. An e-mail once in awhile wouldn't hurt though.

i cant say im in the same situation but, i feel for ya, ive had something similar T^T my gf dumped me so im thinbking she was using me to get back at her Ex who dumped her ....if thats anything close

ok pup i feel so bad for you
you need to talk to me more and such i could help you so well
call me pup

Thats really shitty master and I'm sorry to hear that you have been treated that way. You know I'm always here if you need to talk about things, I'm just a phone call away. Anytime, day or night if you need to talk I am here.

i know how it feels like to be forgotten.