bruh ur a furry
9 years ago
General
Why do so many people who draw exclusively anthro animals, or even just classic cartoon animals With Personalities and Human Eyebrows (TM) righteously proclaim they are not furries or spazz out if anyone "accuses" them of being such?
Like, I know there's a bad association with the "sexual side" of the fandom attached to the word 'furry', but I don't like any of the sexual stuff, am a happy lil virgin, and don't care if someone calls me a furry cuz I am one dammit.
OWN IT
U A FURRY BRUH
Disclaimer - if you don't associate yourself with the word for a personal reason or it really does squick you out, I get it. I'm mostly just joking around.
Like, I know there's a bad association with the "sexual side" of the fandom attached to the word 'furry', but I don't like any of the sexual stuff, am a happy lil virgin, and don't care if someone calls me a furry cuz I am one dammit.
OWN IT
U A FURRY BRUH
Disclaimer - if you don't associate yourself with the word for a personal reason or it really does squick you out, I get it. I'm mostly just joking around.
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now i'm just like "yeah hi I'm furry trash nyaa :3c"
But gdi if I'm not having a blast. I'd show up to work in a fursuit if I could. We have some huge pipe wrenches that I keep thinking would go awesome as a dystopian post-apocalyptic weapon for themed outfits with my partial. xD
And OH MAN FURSUITING IS THE MOST FUN. I always wanted to be a mascot as a kid, did it in highschool for sports stuff, then worked as one at a local theme park, and then found out people did it for fun that's not a job or sports and I was like I HAVE FOUND MY PEOPLE.
But now that I'm older, I got better at art and evolved to drawing everything. And I don't care what people think. lol
Now I'm quite proud to be in this community, even if my school friends give me trouble for it.
I know they still love me and all the dogs I draw.
BUT HELL YEAH KEEP DRAWIN ALL THOSE DOGS
So what? Funny animal people are cool.if it makes you a "furry" because you can say "hey, I like drawings/I like to draw funny animal people" then it is what it is.
Especially if you're a nerd, growing up with a lot of dismissal, you really want your goofy things to have gravitas, to be somehow taken as deadly serious as the other things we're told are unquestionable - religion, capitalism, rationality, that sort of thing. This gives rise to the whole "grim superhero comics" thing, or people viewing the original Ghostbusters as sacrosanct, or in this case, as how they can't possibly belong to a fandom which, at its best, is a little like mixing Burning Man and an animation festival.
But furry fandom being Burning Man + animation festival is pretty spot on. And on that note, I loved the new Ghostbusters having no real attachment to the original and wish my comics were a more even level of silly goofy superhero shenanigans and more serious/metaphoric plotlines. Saga from Imageworks strikes that midline pretty darn well
Just a typical case of "meeting the wrong part of the community first" (or to say it clearly, a bunch of idiots who attacked anybody who wasn't "carrying a pure animal soul" and hating on humans. "You have to be a true animal at heart or you're not a furry!" <- original quote).
Sheesh, no wonder I didn't want to be called a furry when I was young. I'm glad I gave it another try.
But lmao I FOR ONE AM A TRU ANIMAL AT HEART. My heart beats with the pounding rage of a thousand boofaloo hooves
(sort of in a way someone may like the look of a vehicle without really agreeing with the people who usually flock to that type or are responsible for making it (planes,tanks,race cars,etc) )
there was also a time when many people projected the attitude that to be a "real furry" someone must be addicted to getting off to cartoon animals, visit at least one con,have a fursuit,and love the community. (there might be some people who still present that).
someone might not have time or money, or have other obligations that keep them from being fully involved, a lack of interest in the people side, or dissuaded by the rather unsavory part. (people acting a fool or dangerously in gatherings, the slang, "if you don't buy my stuff you should feel ashamed of depriving a poor artist", "my fursona is also a fox so your character being a fox is ripping off my property",etc). some cultures may additionally frown upon such activities- drawing could be done and detached from a name, but publicly declaring it may be considered disruptive or immature
Ah, yeah, I think I remember that "era" of thought. Squicked me out at the time. What is a ~real~ furry, haha.
Some people are afraid of losing/not getting jobs for being called the wrong word.
Because "furry" is an imaginary identity, that does not really exist. Telling someone who likes Lion Hamlet that he/she is a furry, is like telling the french that they are calling the apple by the wrong word, since "apple" is the correct word and "pomme" is not.
A furry needs to self-identify as the member of the talking animal fan club.
But more seriously, there was a point in the late 90s and noughties where the term furry tended to bring really bad press. The only time it was an acknowledged subculture was in a negative light, usually with those involved held up as some freaks for normal people to laugh at. Looking at you, Eurotrash. Those of us that remember these times avoided association with the word because we didn't want to get torn into at school/college/work.
It's a lot better now though. The rise of the internet and geek chic has opened windows onto all sorts of subcultures, and most of them have turned out to be a lot tamer and less threatening than was previously made out. Differences in personal tastes and interests are more readily accepted than in the past. Recently someone joked that I must be a closet furry, and I said I'm not in the closet - there were laughs, conversation moved on, and that was the end of it :)
I still wouldn't put that on my CV though :P As far as most people are concerned, I do 'fantasy' art xD
With Anthrocon and similar, I imagine the hotels and venues have gotten over the shock now, and just filed it under another busy - and therefore desirable - week like any other nerd gathering. As long as they can remain in the 'harmless fringe' then they'll be increasingly welcomed by local businesses. Fortunately it's pretty hard to be a dick in a fursuit :)
It's kind of like how anime is an art style, but not everyone who draws anime is a weeaboo, or part of the anime fandom culture in general.
This has levels though, of course. Like if someone goes to furry conventions and wears a fursuit etc, yeah they're a furry, no doubt. If they say otherwise they're probably in denial or something. But if they just draw classic cartoon characters that existed before furry fandom (as you mentioned), no, I don't think they are default a furry.
Like if someone draws the cat in the hat all day cause they're a fan, I think forcing them into the furry term is ridiculous. It's a personal choice. If anyone in that scenario is being righteous, I'd say it's the ones forcing people into their labels.
This is mostly me just trying to be funny and hoping that if someone wanted to draw themselves as a cat and draw exclusively furry-like art would feel more comfortable with the label and not look at it like it was something bad to be. I just want everyone to be happy and have fun \.o./
That being said, on a personal level I have nothing against the furry fandom--that's why I've been here for years, after all. Furries are often harmless and have awesome imaginations/ideas.
But you can play video games without being part of the gamer subculture. You can draw a cat with eyebrows and not know the slightest thing about the furry community.
Yes, I lurk from time to time! ; )
Tho I think nowadays one could argue that there is a "furry" style that has emerged from the fandom itself, but that's a different issue entirely and is actually kinda interesting if anyone were to ever study it's progression.
:D Lurk away!! Don't mind if I lurk back!
if one has to be immersed in one narrow particular lifestyle to be furry, i'm just as a guess, probably not.
on the other paw, my 'lifestyle' such as it is, certainly isn't any dominant mainstream either.
i don't even understand how anyone can possible wish, let alone pursue, what i see as being the values of today's dominant main stream culture.
but does that automatically make me some, any, particular sub culture? i'm pretty sure i'm a sub culture of one.
at least i don't feel emotionally dependent on 'identifying with' anything that isn't in my own head.
i see furrys as people sharing appearance with non-human species to whom this earth is home.
in other words a kind of local subset of alien.
what is a furry subculture? i've lived a couple of years in house shared by furrys.
as a subculture it seems to be a sub sub culture of gender benders,
but i'm not that either. and while perhaps a minority, i know a lot of furrys who aren't genderbent.
so just what is this thing called a furry subculture? i really don't know.
i mean i've been deeply surrounded by it, and i still don't claim to know.
but i know people who look like other then human species of earth, seem to be the defining factor.
/INSTA-FOLLOWS
as for other people in any of my interests doing things i wouldn't be interested in, really doesn't affect what i am interested in.
people outside of those interests, lumping people together who share them, with what THEY might have a problem with,
well that's rather obviously just ignorance, and like it or not, that's a thing that exists too,
but i'm not going to reject being accepted because of the stereotypes of ignorant outsiders.
some things do bother me when people who don't know what they're talking about associate me with them.
not the things, the people doing so.
the ignorance of the ignorant IS annoying, but it isn't going to change what i am and am not interested in.
and i'm cool with a lot of things that don't interest me, being an interest of people who share some of the things i am interested in.
which isn't going to make me interested in what i'm not either.
vore and diapers and inflation as erotic fantasy i'm like huh? how? why?
as for gender, outside of sex, why should that have anything to do with anything?
within it, like anything else, to each their own.
technologies compatible with nature and infrastructure based on them,
cultures based on logic and consideration, leading people to live in odd, tiny little houses,
these things attract me,
and the people living in them just happen to be 'furry', because humans don't look that good,
and there's a great big universe were life evolves independently on every world it occurs,
surrounding this tiny island that is our own.
so my furry is kind of after the fact.
i'm much more interested in world and culture and places and things concepts,
then i am in characters, personas, fursonas, or portraits of them.
which is what leaves my furryness in a bit of a limbo that i leave up to others
to feel about how they choose to.
so furry isn't a dirty word. but is it me or not me? my answer is does it matter?
i make pictures, of places, inside my head, the people in them aren't human.
but they are people, and some have tails and all have obviously non-human faces.
Sci-fi and other more "mainstream" nerds- mostly/stereotypically straight- get typed as the loser virgin nerds. But furries, w a higher non-straight demographic? They like/do sex stuff and that's gross. Somehow it's yiffy gay foxes that make it into the mainstream as "bad" furries and not your basic straight boys who jack off to Lola Bunny.
For sure. It's like, in our society, if there's not some shame attached to it, you're weird. You gotta have some good ol' fashion American Protestant guilt about your sex, especially your gay sex, or you're just not doing it right. Being out and proud has always been seen as a threat to the status quo, and tacking on being a furry to that just makes it ickier for some, I suppose.
That is a new way perspective.
Me...
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