I'm kinda confused. what's a cage? why can't you stand going to the bathroom if you have a "clit"? and you go months
without cumming? longest I went was 23 days. you are amazing!

When I say "cage" I'm referring to a chastity device. It's essentially a little cage that you lock onto your cock to prevent pleasure and orgasms. My "clit" is my penis, Madam has had me call it a clit for so long it actually feels more natural to say that rather than cock or penis. And the reason why I can't stand in the bathroom anymore is because of the cage, it can get in the way of my stream a little and cause a big mess, so to make sure I don't I have to sit down.

Yep, in the past six months I got to cum once, right as we entered 2016. It was very short because I had to make sure I came right at midnight and I had to stop touching immediately after. It felt amazing and all I want is more, but now I'm all locked up, I don't know how many more months it'll be before I can cum again.

Interesting way of life. haha I should do this for 2016. well maybe not the penis/clit thing, but everything else
seems intriguing to me. thanks for telling me a bit about your life.

It's not easy to deny yourself pleasure for months at a time. Mme has been a wonderful master to me and my want to please them is what has kept me going. I wish you good luck, if you'd like to talk more just let me know!

For me, something like this would probably have to remain a fantasy.
Still it must be an interesting experience with highs and lows ...

I've noticed that they come in waves. They used to be very frequent, but now I get them every month or so. I'll have no urge to touch or play for a long time, then for a couple weeks in a row it's the only thing I want to do. You have to learn to use that pent up energy on other things, you can't just ignore it or it just comes right back.

Hm I've always heard the first few weeks were the worst but the recurring urges seems rough as well. If you don't mind I was wondering are you going to be "milked" or given ruined orgasms for the medical (or maybe kinky) reasons during you chaste? Those might be days to somewhat look forward to.
You referred to your penis as your clit so it may not bother you but are you worried about any shrinkage that may occur?
Just curious >.>

Mme already says I'm tiny so there's not much to lose if I do shrink a little. But I don't think shrinking is actually a thing?

The first few weeks were the roughest. The first few months were rough actually. I was in chastity throughout most of 2015 and I got very used to being denied pleasure. I got to cum about halfway through and just a few days ago.

Nope, I've never been milked and don't expect to be milked either, there is no medical reason to do it so if they do milk me it would be just for play. Mme does not tell me things anyway, I usually find out about them the day they happen and there's usually a good several months between each thing I'm told to do.

Thanks for answering my questions! Regarding the reasoning for "medical" release of fluids, it is suppose to prevent thickening of residual semen during long periods without ejaculation. Of course that could all be nonsense . A subject like this doesn't exactly have a clear consensus. Either way I hope your chaste goes as well as it can :/

Well, I can say that I've gone 6 months and noticed zero difference in my semen. I have talked about this with Mme before and they know their anatomy extremely well and have taken many, many classes about this sort of stuff, so there's no real reason to milk someone for medical reasons.

What's difficult to prevent are wet dreams. I actually never had one before starting chastity, but now I get them every so often. I'm able to stop most of them, but sometimes I can't and I cum just a tiny little bit before I'm able to stop it. The best was to prevent them, I've learned, is to wear infant socks on your penis. I have 3 little pink ones that I wear beneath my underwear and I can't feel a single thing, it really makes sleeping that much more relaxing.

Congrats!
I got my lock glued some time ago
So something like permanent too

Oh my, glued!? Are you locked up forever or will you be released?

Would it be possible to see a photo of this cage?
And if one may ask: Why cage instead of full belt like mine?

I don't recall the manufacturer, but these are mostly all the same. http://www.amazon.com/Utimi-Silica-Chastity-Device-Special/dp/B00MBDZLAI/ref=sr_1_1?s=hpc&ie=UTF8&qid=1451953909&sr=1-1&keywords=chastity+cage I got the blue one.

This is my first cage so I didn't want to get something expensive immediately, and it's comfortable. The main reason for not getting a belt is because I feel like they have a decent possibility of being detected. I think it'd be easy for someone to bump into me, and feel it or my shirt could raise up a little and someone may see it.

But things may change in the future, I'm not sure what Mme has in store for me.

Also I know it's an easy cage to escape from (I even have the keys right here), but for me it serves a slightly different purpose. I've already been in chastity for most of a year without a cage. I'm more than capable of not touching myself on my own willpower. The cage is more symbolic, it's a reminder that my clit does not belong to me, instead it belongs to Mme, whether I'm hard or soft, I always feel it. Mme and I live pretty far away from each other so I need to be in charge of the keys in case of an emergency. You might think that would completely lose the point of chastity, but it doesn't. While I have the keys or even slip it off with some effort, what Mme tells me is my law. I obey every word they say and if I don't, I'm completely honest with them.

Old journal is old
But I want to get my pet a cage, silicone, but...
well most of them are made on the medium to small size unfortunately?? I don't know how to measure for this.

I know we talked privately, but wanted to post it here in case it was useful for someone.

Firstly, unless it's a custom cage, just assume it wont fit perfectly, because it wont and that could make it awkward a little (probably when trying to pee and not make a mess). But also watch out for any discomfort. I had to stop wearing my cage because the ring that goes around the shaft and balls was actually cutting into my skin D: (my cage was also made out of soft silicone as well and it still hurt me quite a bit) If he experiences any pain be sure to take it seriously. If it does this, short play will probably be fine, but long term wear not so much. Also start out slow, go for ten minutes, then tomorrow go for an hour, so on and so forth, just to be safe.

To size the cage, just take the length of the penis when it is at it's smallest size. Get those special cloth measuring tapes to measure with. Measure from the base of the penis, to the tip. That's the length. If he's as "large" as you eluded to in our chat, then measure around the shaft itself, I don't recall cages really giving out that size, but I really only was looking on amazon. To find the ring size just measure around the shaft and the balls. Don't pull the measuring tape too tight, just make sure you get the right size so the ring wont fall off. This isn't too important, most cages come with several rings so you can figure it out when you get it. (That's also why I said to start out slow, you might end up making the cage far too tight.) Any pinching is bad, and any pain is bad. The cage in general though wont be the most comfortable, because it is an extra bit of weight tugging on your sensitive bits, but he'll just have to get used to that.

Lastly, once he's measured make sure to laugh at his pathetic "little" cock and how useless it is!