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Feeling sorry for yourself? - Read this
10 years ago
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Ok so you're feeling pretty crappy & stuffs on top of you right? Just consider these wee things below;
Money worries - there are ways to manage & try to cope. Dont feel afraid to ask for help bc friends & family wont want you suffering in silence.
Weight/looks worries - look in the mirror...see that person staring back? You ARE amazing talented cute besutiful gifted & great at what you do & who you are. Nothing will change unless you are strong enough to take those few steps. Even if youre not ask someone to hold your hand & guide so youre not alone!
Work/jobless - YOU posses a skill that shines through, be confident in what you can do! Whatever skills you have, flaunt them, build them up , study or even consider a career change if you like a challenge! You are NOT useless & you WILL succeed!
Health - No one has the perfect body or worlds best immune system but dont self diagnose or fear the unknown. Ask for help seek guidence from a health proffesional or a friend. Talk about what worried you get it off your chest you WILL feel better for it!
I have seen some people really devalue themselves when they shouldnt, live yourself a bit more, we are all guilty of not doing that.
Its hurtful to see SOME individuals make others feel awful just because they are feeling that way!
Remember LIFE ISNT FAIR, nobody said it always be easy or happy but YOU are LOVED, people CARE & you got to be STRONG to get up & move on.
People have asked me how do I cope having cancer/chemo /operations & getting on witj life on my own in a place where I dont have any friends? I reply with this, giving up is not an option & YES ive had very VERY shitty days where I do want to give up & no go on, but what keeps me going is the perspective judt bc Im alone & struggling doesnt mean others have to!
If I can help at least ONE person feel better/ make situation better than that day was not a failure & hence IM not a failure.
Yes there are times I want to curl up & not want to talk or feel a bother to buds or peepz BUT that I realised is so much more damaging to myself! Ive had to drop my pride & try to trust people more & I tell you its not been easy!
Bottom line is - I dont try make life any harder for myself & if I can pass on ANYTHING its live youre life that makes you happiest & dont make it more difficult for yourself!
I dont want sympathy or any bollox this journal is to PURELY help THOSE who are struggling - youre not alone, youre amazing & things WILL get better xx
Loopy
Money worries - there are ways to manage & try to cope. Dont feel afraid to ask for help bc friends & family wont want you suffering in silence.
Weight/looks worries - look in the mirror...see that person staring back? You ARE amazing talented cute besutiful gifted & great at what you do & who you are. Nothing will change unless you are strong enough to take those few steps. Even if youre not ask someone to hold your hand & guide so youre not alone!
Work/jobless - YOU posses a skill that shines through, be confident in what you can do! Whatever skills you have, flaunt them, build them up , study or even consider a career change if you like a challenge! You are NOT useless & you WILL succeed!
Health - No one has the perfect body or worlds best immune system but dont self diagnose or fear the unknown. Ask for help seek guidence from a health proffesional or a friend. Talk about what worried you get it off your chest you WILL feel better for it!
I have seen some people really devalue themselves when they shouldnt, live yourself a bit more, we are all guilty of not doing that.
Its hurtful to see SOME individuals make others feel awful just because they are feeling that way!
Remember LIFE ISNT FAIR, nobody said it always be easy or happy but YOU are LOVED, people CARE & you got to be STRONG to get up & move on.
People have asked me how do I cope having cancer/chemo /operations & getting on witj life on my own in a place where I dont have any friends? I reply with this, giving up is not an option & YES ive had very VERY shitty days where I do want to give up & no go on, but what keeps me going is the perspective judt bc Im alone & struggling doesnt mean others have to!
If I can help at least ONE person feel better/ make situation better than that day was not a failure & hence IM not a failure.
Yes there are times I want to curl up & not want to talk or feel a bother to buds or peepz BUT that I realised is so much more damaging to myself! Ive had to drop my pride & try to trust people more & I tell you its not been easy!
Bottom line is - I dont try make life any harder for myself & if I can pass on ANYTHING its live youre life that makes you happiest & dont make it more difficult for yourself!
I dont want sympathy or any bollox this journal is to PURELY help THOSE who are struggling - youre not alone, youre amazing & things WILL get better xx
Loopy
Hopefully you'll feel better soon hun x