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11 years ago
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Ever since I was little, the “Tough-guy-stereotype” was always nagging in the back on my mind, and anytime I talked with someone, I was constantly afraid that if I acted honestly, people would laugh or bully me for being too sensitive or effeminate/ “Girly.”
Now, almost at age 24, I had to face seriously bad health in order to finally learn to embrace who I am and be proud of it! I’m a straight male, sensitive, effeminate, giggly, and a proud artist and Furry. People, don’t worry about those who mock or tease you. Be kind anyway and BE YOU. To make friendships that matter, we have to make the effort to be KIND to strangers/aka. potential friends. <3
I just really had to share that with you all. Your thoughts on the matter?
Now, almost at age 24, I had to face seriously bad health in order to finally learn to embrace who I am and be proud of it! I’m a straight male, sensitive, effeminate, giggly, and a proud artist and Furry. People, don’t worry about those who mock or tease you. Be kind anyway and BE YOU. To make friendships that matter, we have to make the effort to be KIND to strangers/aka. potential friends. <3
I just really had to share that with you all. Your thoughts on the matter?
I look back at how scared and conflicted I used to feel, so I just feel I NEED to share my experience and encouragement with others who might be facing tough times. We Furs need to help each other grow kinder to each other and others who don't quite understand our views.
And people need to realize that EVERYONE deserves to be happy with who they are. So many of us are misled to think that can't be happy with themselves until they reach a certain "standard" or reach a specific goal.
We all make mistakes and we all have challenges. Even the "idols" we admire from a distance. They're facing life just like everyone else. Being "good enough" means giving yourself a pat on the back for your success and learning from the mistakes.
I think talking with this young man made me realize how far a little kindness can go.http://www.furaffinity.net/journal/5033828/
(And a side comment) Even though we may run into people misusing religion, it's important to remember those who DO accept us for who we are. In other words, they're acting like REAL Christians, following Jesus's example of kindness and acceptance. This coming from a non-religious person like myself.
Again, thanks for sharing that, Raynard! *hugs*