Toxic people - Rant
11 years ago
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I honestly dont understand how someone can be so rude and toxic to a random person or anyone for that matter.
This happens to all of us I am sure. And you artists out there know what I am talking about. If you stream even more so. Here you are streaming doing your art and some random pair of assholes come in and just start to tear up what you just created. It is not like they are trying to help you in any way. No they are just being mean and down right rude.
I guess I am just saying that it fucking sucks. It sucks that there are so many people out there that are like this.
As far as my personal streams I will be doing those and banning anyone who is rude of course.
And for multi streams.. Yeah I am just not going to do those anymore. Sorry guys </3
And if you have ever been THAT person please keep in mind you have no idea what the person on the receiving end is going through.
Normal me would have just ignored an attack like that. But right now I am going through a lot of emotional shit. Had some deep personal struggles this last 7 days including getting laid off from work. So this me is already almost to a breaking point. An attack of rude remarks and 'I feel sorry for the person who bought that shitty art' just sends me into tears and I honestly want to just go to bed.
TLDR:: Dont be a fucking asshole.
All that being said rude comment will be fucking hidden.
I honestly dont understand how someone can be so rude and toxic to a random person or anyone for that matter.
This happens to all of us I am sure. And you artists out there know what I am talking about. If you stream even more so. Here you are streaming doing your art and some random pair of assholes come in and just start to tear up what you just created. It is not like they are trying to help you in any way. No they are just being mean and down right rude.
I guess I am just saying that it fucking sucks. It sucks that there are so many people out there that are like this.
As far as my personal streams I will be doing those and banning anyone who is rude of course.
And for multi streams.. Yeah I am just not going to do those anymore. Sorry guys </3
And if you have ever been THAT person please keep in mind you have no idea what the person on the receiving end is going through.
Normal me would have just ignored an attack like that. But right now I am going through a lot of emotional shit. Had some deep personal struggles this last 7 days including getting laid off from work. So this me is already almost to a breaking point. An attack of rude remarks and 'I feel sorry for the person who bought that shitty art' just sends me into tears and I honestly want to just go to bed.
TLDR:: Dont be a fucking asshole.
All that being said rude comment will be fucking hidden.
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im going through some similar shit, being stalked and harassed irl actually. idk how much i can take
lets run away together!
I worry for your safety! Come live with me and I will beat them! Rawr!
*offers hug*
I think honestly that they hate life so much and are so sad they feel the need to try to inflict that pain on others.
Yeah that must be it.
I started to loose it TBH thats why I left.
*huge hugs*
Having seen the logs, and the stuff that these people were picking on you for, I can definitely say the stuff they were hassling you for is bullshit.
Your faces are anthro. While humans have some changes in face shape and features between the sexes, anthro is.. well, it's more animal than human. They're not going to have differences from male to female unless you specifically put them there and emphasize them, and 9/10 times that's just going to be a change in eye shape. For most people, their style of drawing anthro faces is going to read more male or female based on the style of the artist themselves, and yours is more rounded.
Like you said, it's pretty apparent looking at your gallery that you favor the more rounded, feminine look, and someone who's chosen to invest RL money in a commission will be aware and okay with this.
In terms of body anatomy... not really sure where they're coming from? You draw pretty lithe, androgynous bodies whether you're drawing a male OR female character, and the same's true of an ENORMOUS percentage of the internet today. Your male characters don't look feminine in terms of body type, they just don't look like they're lifting weights and popping steroids. I'd imagine if you were working on a very masculine character, you'd pump up those male traits a bit more, but in a lot of cases it's not going to be applicable and your anatomy looks perfectly appropriate.
Sorry for the rambling, but tl;dr your work looks more than fine and based on the stuff they chose to pick on I can guarantee they were just looking to hassle you with anything they could. It was pretty clear it was intentional dickishness rather than any sort of genuine attempt at critique, so to hell with them and you do your thing.
I have been creepin' on your page for a while now sorry I never said hi or anything </3
I was honestly just trying to be civil in the stream and everything and as nice as I could be to them so that it did not blow up the stream. But towards the end there I started to loose it and left for the sake of not hitting caps lock and letting it ride.
Thank you for confirming that I am improving and going in the right way it means so much coming from such a wonderful and talented person. Never TLDR <3 You spent the time to come here and write such uplifting things how could I not read it!? *hugs* Thank you again. Really. I am not one to do the whole self pity thing but when it rains it pours and this week has been a really tough one. @.@
And speaking of muscles! SFW link: http://gyazo.com/a61b181e598e60fead9ae43a5d977ec4 he has a little beef to him <3
And hey, everyone deserves to hear some nice things, especially when they're doing such a nice job with their art! I really liked what I saw looking through your stuff; I still can't for the life of me figure out how to do those appealing anthro faces, so I admire it a lot in other people XD Definitely keep up what you're doing (and I like the muscles, haha)!
You are an amazing person, and an amazing artist, and always remember that every time you draw and every moment you advance your proving those people wrong. <3 Keep strong, everything will work out!!
You are really right though. <3 I have a lot of people who love what I make and that is just amazing. I have only been at it for just over a year now and looking back and how far things have come. I cant be sad. I am going to post that picture they were hating on and just own it. Plus the person who paid for it is excited. Cant let them down just because of some jerks.