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My Sexuality is Fabulous.
12 years ago
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I guess it’s just one of those moments where you stand in your shower and think about life. Couldn’t sleep so figured I’d do the next best thing, and that’s think and write. As many know my “true” sexuality is…straight. Oh my! But for me, thinking about that label makes me feel a bit ashamed. I say this simply because people look at it as very limiting or closed like I’d be offended if I ever saw a dick. Ha-ha. Quite the contrary really. I guess I can say what I base my sexuality on is 80% of who I can fall in love with and then 20% on what I’d willingly be intimate with. I break it apart on the priority, but they are numbers I just made up off the top of my head.
I could never truly have a relationship with a male, that’s kind of how I know I’m straight. Not that I’d ever be offended by it, or upset if someone hits on me. It just simply comes down to they would not be able to provide the emotional and physical support I need in life. Then comes down to intimacy...”Preferably” I’d never sleep with a male. However it’s more on the level of I don’t care really, not my thing. Just as any person who was gay could sleep with a female, honestly my straight-ness doesn’t prevent me from sleeping with a male just more so my willingness to participate.
Honestly being furry for so long, I have to say you kind of just watch labels that society puts on you dissolve and you act just how you want to act regardless of societal labels. Which comes down to the joke of when someone asks me my sexuality I just state fabulous, simply because I’m the least straight male you’d probably ever meet in terms of actions, openness and how accepting I am of any situation. Only straight part of me is that I like boobies and females. Put it this way, there is almost absolutely no situation you could put me in that I’d feel uncomfortable. Believe me many have tried. I’ve walked in on many having sex and never needed eye bleach, hell there have even been a few times I’ve walked in on orgies occurring, been handed a drink and pretty much stayed simply because I wanted to finish my drink and figured it would have been rude to have walked out with a drink. So in the end I ended up with a drink and a show. (No didn’t join, and no wasn’t excited simply just gave no fucks).
Which guess describes who I am; I care about those around me, friends, loved ones and even fans (simply because you have to put up with me ha-ha). But in situations I honestly give no fucks. I’ve been groped, fondled, walked in on any and every imaginable situation and have never regretted it. I don’t worry simply because I am completely comfortable in whom I am, and I know what I am better than anyone. It doesn’t falter because of situations, strange motions, or being groped. Life should be fun, why keep doors closed when leaving them open gives you the true breeze of life. I’d rather feel everything life has to offer, than to be afraid or offended and shut a door in fear.
That’s why I am what I am, and that’s all that I am…
A Fabulous Blue Fox
I could never truly have a relationship with a male, that’s kind of how I know I’m straight. Not that I’d ever be offended by it, or upset if someone hits on me. It just simply comes down to they would not be able to provide the emotional and physical support I need in life. Then comes down to intimacy...”Preferably” I’d never sleep with a male. However it’s more on the level of I don’t care really, not my thing. Just as any person who was gay could sleep with a female, honestly my straight-ness doesn’t prevent me from sleeping with a male just more so my willingness to participate.
Honestly being furry for so long, I have to say you kind of just watch labels that society puts on you dissolve and you act just how you want to act regardless of societal labels. Which comes down to the joke of when someone asks me my sexuality I just state fabulous, simply because I’m the least straight male you’d probably ever meet in terms of actions, openness and how accepting I am of any situation. Only straight part of me is that I like boobies and females. Put it this way, there is almost absolutely no situation you could put me in that I’d feel uncomfortable. Believe me many have tried. I’ve walked in on many having sex and never needed eye bleach, hell there have even been a few times I’ve walked in on orgies occurring, been handed a drink and pretty much stayed simply because I wanted to finish my drink and figured it would have been rude to have walked out with a drink. So in the end I ended up with a drink and a show. (No didn’t join, and no wasn’t excited simply just gave no fucks).
Which guess describes who I am; I care about those around me, friends, loved ones and even fans (simply because you have to put up with me ha-ha). But in situations I honestly give no fucks. I’ve been groped, fondled, walked in on any and every imaginable situation and have never regretted it. I don’t worry simply because I am completely comfortable in whom I am, and I know what I am better than anyone. It doesn’t falter because of situations, strange motions, or being groped. Life should be fun, why keep doors closed when leaving them open gives you the true breeze of life. I’d rather feel everything life has to offer, than to be afraid or offended and shut a door in fear.
That’s why I am what I am, and that’s all that I am…
A Fabulous Blue Fox
Hay, whatever floats people's boat. Im as straight as can be but even I can admit boobs are freakn' awesome, and I find the female body more interesting than a males. To boobies!
Nor am I offended by people's sexuality or being hit on...its quite flattering...I just hate seeing the disappointment when I have to turn someone down.
I wouldn't join an orgy for many reasons but wouldn't be insulted if one took place in my presence. I'm very much a live and let live kind of person.
Its interesting...I've taken more heat on forums I belong to for my tolerance and acceptance of people than I ever have for anything else....as if being accepting is a bad thing.
My personal point of view is that if you don't impose on someone else or do anything self destructive you're free to live your life in the way that makes you happiest. I'm pretty comfortable with my somewhat ambiguous sexuality. Glad to see you are too.